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7 Best Sexy Gifts for Her This Valentines

best sexy gifts for her

Valentine’s Day is almost here, which means you’re probably wondering about sexy, romantic gifts to give your wife or girlfriend. If you’re not sure what to get her–don’t worry! I’ve put together a list of seven of my favorite naughty Valentine’s gifts for her.

Your sexy gift should offer top-quality materials and be easy to clean. If it’s a vibrator, it should have multiple intensity levels and offer her an amazing experience. In this article, I’ll walk you through the features, pros, and cons of each of my top seven gift ideas and how to pick the best sexy gifts to rock her world. 

What are the Best Sexy Gifts for Her?

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Premium
Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney the Bunny-Hop Silicone Rabbit Vibrator
  • Curved for G-spot stimulation
  • Flexible bunny ears for clitoral stimulation
  • USB rechargeable and waterproof
Best
We-Vibe Tango X Lipstick Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator
  • Discreet bullet vibe for external use
  • Offers eight intensity levels and seven patterns
  • Easy-to-hold matte silicone handle
Womanizer Premium 2
  • Premium clitoral suction device
  • 14 Incredible intensity levels
  • Autopilot Mode and Smart Silence function
We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibrator
  • Silicone panty vibrator
  • Controlled via remote or App
  • 10 Fun vibration modes
Budget
Lovehoney Oh Vanilla Massage Candle
  • 2.1 oz (60 g) of massage oil
  • Vanilla scent
  • Low melting temperature
Lovehoney Late Night Liaison Blue Lace Babydoll Set
  • Lace babydoll with matching thong
  • Adjustable straps
  • Available in one size or one size queen
Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator
  • Silicone clitoral suction device
  • Six intensity levels
  • Batteries included

Sexy Gift Reviews

Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney the Bunny-Hop Silicone Rabbit Vibrator

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  • Curved for G-spot stimulation
  • Flexible bunny ears for clitoral stimulation
  • USB rechargeable and waterproof
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Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney the Bunny-Hop Silicone Rabbit Vibrator Review

5

Lovehoney partnered with Agent Provocateur to create the Bunny-Hop, a beautiful, luxury rabbit vibrator that is sure to please your wife. With its soft silicone, rose gold buttons, and discreet black case, this vibrator looks and feels gorgeous. 

The Bunny-Hop Rabbit Vibe has two motors, one for the G-spot and one for the clitoris, so both of your wife’s most intimate parts will receive intense vibrations.

There are three intensity levels and five vibration patterns to choose from, so you’re sure to find a setting that fits your wife’s preferences. 

The only downside to this vibrator is that the bunny ears may not line up with your wife’s clitoris. If she has had rabbit vibrators in the past that don’t quite line up with her body, you may want to pass on this one. 

Pros

  • Dual internal and external stimulation
  • Deluxe look and feel
  • The kit includes a discreet storage case

Cons

  • Rabbit ears may not line up with the clitoris
  • Not budget-friendly

We-Vibe Tango X Lipstick Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator

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  • Discreet bullet vibe for external use
  • Offers eight intensity levels and seven patterns
  • Easy-to-hold matte silicone handle
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We-Vibe Tango X Lipstick Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator Review

4.8

The iconic Bullet vibrator is one of our top hot wife gift ideas. If your wife needs super intense clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, then a bullet vibe is the perfect gift. 

Bullet vibes like the We-Vibe Tango X concentrate their vibration power into a small point, sending intense stimulation directly to your wife’s most sensitive parts. 

The We-Vibe Tango X is one of my favorite bullet vibes on the market. Its vibrations are more “rumbly” than “buzzy” unlike so many other vibrators on the market.

Its matte silicone handle is easy to hold and maneuver, and the vibrations concentrate into its lipstick-shaped tip. 

The only major drawback to this vibrator is that it doesn’t offer any internal stimulation. But that just means you can pair it with your wife’s favorite dildo or use it during penetrative sex.

The intense vibrations are sure to send her over the edge, and you get to enjoy the show!

Pros

  • Intense 'rumbly' clitoral vibrations
  • Discreet and compact for travel
  • USB rechargeable and waterproof

Cons

  • A little pricey for a bullet vibe
  • Pinpoint vibrations may be too intense for some users

Womanizer Premium 2 Rechargeable Smart Silence Clitoral Suction Stimulator

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  • Premium clitoral suction device
  • 14 Incredible intensity levels
  • Autopilot Mode and Smart Silence function
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Womanizer Premium 2 Rechargeable Smart Silence Clitoral Suction Stimulator Review

4.7

The Womanizer is a clitoral suction device instead of a regular vibrator and is one of the best sexual gifts you can possibly get for your lady love!

It’s no secret that the Womanizer Premium 2 is one of my favorite devices on the market, and this is the latest deluxe version of the toy, with several new functions that make it a step up from the original. 

This toy has a Smart Silence function, which means it only turns on when it’s in close contact with your body—no more ruining your post-orgasmic bliss to turn off the vibrator. Just move the toy away from your body, and it turns off. 

It also has an autopilot feature to take control away from the user. The toy will randomly switch between intensities and patterns, leaving you to hang on for the ride. 

If you can afford to spend a little extra on your wife this Valentine’s Day, the Womanizer Premium 2 is sure to rock her world. 

Pros

  • Incredible clitoral stimulation - without a doubt the best!
  • The device only turns on when in contact with your body
  • Very comfortable to hold and easy to operate

Cons

  • Expensive price tag
  • Can be a little noisy on the higher settings

We-Vibe Moxie App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Panty Vibrator

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  • Silicone panty vibrator
  • Controlled via remote or App
  • 10 Fun vibration modes
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We-Vibe Moxie App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Panty Vibrator Review

4.5

The Moxie by We-Vibe is a remote-controlled clitoral vibrator compatible with We-Vibe’s We-Connect app, which makes it a top naughty Valentine’s gift for her.

This panty vibrator makes it perfect for long-distance couples because you can control her vibrator from anywhere with the app. 

It’s also great for couples interested in semi-public sex. The Moxie comes with a magnetic clip that can attach to your partner’s panties. That means she can wear the vibrator out on a date night, and you can use the app to control the vibrations she receives. 

I only wish that the We-Connect app was more reliable. It’s prone to disconnecting, which can be a huge turn-off if you’re in the middle of some long-distance sex.

Pros

  • Ideal for public play or long distance fun
  • Intense clitoral vibrations
  • Premium quality feel in both device and remote

Cons

  • App connection is sometimes unreliable

Lovehoney Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle

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  • 2.1 oz (60 g) of massage oil
  • Vanilla scent
  • Low melting temperature
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Lovehoney Oh! Vanilla Massage Candle Review

4.4

Celebrate Valentine’s Day by giving your lover an erotic massage with this Lovehoney vanilla massage candle. It contains massage oil that melts when you light it.

The low melting temperature means it’s perfectly safe to drip the hot oil on your partner’s body. 

The candlelight and vanilla smell will set the mood for your massage, then you can slowly drip the oil on your partner’s back, maybe engaging in a little sensory play.

When you’re satisfied with the amount of oil, start rubbing it into her skin with long, smooth strokes. 

This candle is a must-have for anyone who loves massages. It’s also super affordable, so you can still get your partner a gift even if you’re on a budget. It’s also not an awkward gift to someone you might still be in the process of getting to know. 

It’s not always easy to discuss sex toy preferences because some women may be shy at first. The massage candle is a great introduction to sex play and may get them to open up more.

Pros

  • Perfect for an erotic massage
  • Delicious scent
  • Budget-friendly

Cons

  • Small pot runs out quickly

Lovehoney Late Night Liaison Blue Lace Babydoll Set

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  • Lace babydoll with matching thong
  • Adjustable straps
  • Available in one size or one size queen
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Lovehoney Late Night Liaison Blue Lace Babydoll Set Review

4.3

Giving your wife lingerie is like giving both of you a present, and lingerie is one of the classic sexy gifts for a wife. She gets to feel super confident and sexy in her new underwear, and you get to enjoy looking at her!

This Blue Lace Babydoll shows off her cleavage with a plunging neckline and lace cups. You won’t be able to take your eyes off her, and she’ll feel like a goddess in this sheer babydoll.

It also comes with a crotchless thong, so she can keep her outfit on while you have sex. 

Ordering lingerie online can be a little tricky because your wife can’t try it on first. Fortunately, this babydoll comes with adjustable straps, which should fit most small- and average-sized women. 

Pros

  • The plunging neckline shows off cleavage
  • It offers adjustable straps for a comfortable fit
  • The set includes a crotchless thong

Cons

  • Doesn't offer any bust support

Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator

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  • Silicone clitoral suction device
  • Six intensity levels
  • Batteries included
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Lovehoney X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator Review

4.1

If the Womanizer Premium 2 was a little out of your price range, the Switch by Lovehoney and ROMP is a fantastic choice of erotic gifts for your wife. The Switch offers the same clitoral suction as the Womanizer Premium 2 at a fraction of the cost. 

Your wife will love the suction that this toy provides directly on her clit. With six intensity settings to choose from, you’re sure to find one that sends your wife over the edge.

It’s the perfect gift for anyone who has wanted to try a suction-based toy while still staying within your budget. 

I wish the Switch were a little quieter–it can be very loud on the higher settings, making it not very discreet. Otherwise, I have no complaints. It may not have all the bells and whistles of more deluxe toys, but it certainly gets the job done. 

Pros

  • Intense clitoral stimulation especially for the price
  • Easy two-button interface
  • Smooth device feels great to hold

Cons

  • Requires batteries instead of being rechargeable like most devices
  • Not very quiet

Sexy Gifts for Her: Buyer’s Guide

The best sexy gift for your wife is a toy that you can enjoy together but prioritizes her pleasure, like a massage candle or vibrator. It should be made of quality materials and easy to clean. If it’s a vibrator, it should have multiple intensity levels and be easy to maneuver.

How to Choose the Best Naughty Gift for Her

To choose the best sex gifts for your wife or girlfriend, you need to consider what she likes in a sex toy. 

  • Does dressing up in lingerie make her feel sexy and powerful? Then get her a set of sexy underwear like the Lovehoney Late Night Liaison Blue Lace Babydoll Set. 
  • Does she like vibrators that provide internal and external stimulation instead of just one or the other? Then the Bunny-Hop rabbit vibrator would be perfect for her. 
  • Do both of you enjoy semi-public sex and orgasm denial? The We-Vibe Moxie is a great way to experiment with public sex and for you to take control of her pleasure. 

Talk to your wife about what she likes, and use her preferences to pick the best naughty toy for both of you to enjoy. 

What to Look for in a Sexy Gift for Her

Here are some key features to keep in mind when choosing a sexy gift for a wife or girlfriend: 

  • Look for toys that put her pleasure first. The toy is a gift for her, so you want to make sure it’s a toy she will enjoy.
  • Choose toys made out of silicone. Silicone vibrators are firm, durable, and easy to clean. 
  • Pick a vibrator with multiple settings. Most high-quality vibrators have between three and ten levels of intensity and offer different patterns of vibrations for her pleasure. 
  • When choosing lingerie, think about her tastes. You may want to see your wife wearing a latex catsuit, but maybe your wife prefers lace and sheer mesh.

Final Thoughts

February the 14th is the perfect time to surprise your wife or girlfriend with a naughty Valentine’s gift for her, but you don’t need a special occasion to spoil her.

Whether you choose a vibrator, massage candle, lingerie, or something else entirely, be sure that you’re keeping your partner’s preferences first and foremost.

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