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5 Best Blowjob Toys for Solo and Shared Pleasure

Best Blowjob Toys for Solo and Shared Pleasure

Who doesn’t love a blowjob? Blowjobs are sexy and fun for both parties, but sometimes, you just aren’t able to receive one. Maybe you’re single, maybe you’re in a long-distance relationship, or maybe your partner has a health issue that makes it difficult to perform oral. That’s where blowjob toys come to your rescue.

Some blowjob toys are made for solo use. These masturbation sleeves mimic the feeling of a blowjob with a combination of suction and texture. But other blowjob toys are for couples. These “blowjob helpers” can give your partner some assistance when going down. These open-ended sleeves envelop part of your penis, while your partner can kiss or lick other parts of your shaft. 

I’m going to show you my five favorite blowjob sex toys for solo and couple’s play. I’ll walk you through the pros and cons of each so you can decide which one is right for you. I’ll also give you some tips to keep in mind when purchasing a blowjob toy and some ideas for using one.

What Are The Best Blowjob Toys?

IMAGE RECOMMENDED PRODUCTSPRODUCT FEATURES
Best
Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage Compact Male Masturbator
  • Open-ended SuperSkin sleeve
  • Removable end caps
  • 3.5 inches of internal length
Budget
Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker
  • Non-anatomical open-ended sleeve
  • 2 inches of insertable length
  • Textured sleeve interior for heightened pleasure
BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker
  • Open-ended masturbation sleeve
  • 2 inches of super stretchy material
  • Discreet storage case
Premium
Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Blow Job Masturbator
  • Closed masturbation sleeve
  • Three internal textures mimic oral sex
  • Adjustable suction
Sue Johanson Head Honcho Male Masturbator
  • Stretchy, closed-ended sleeve
  • 5 inches of insertable length
  • Three textured suction chambers

Blowjob Toys Reviews

Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage Compact Male Masturbator

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  • Open-ended SuperSkin sleeve
  • Removable end caps
  • 3.5 inches of internal length
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Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage Compact Male Masturbator Review

4.9

The Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage is much smaller than your average Fleshlight. Thanks to the removable end caps and open-ended sleeves, this compact masturbation sleeve works well for solo play or with a partner. 

It offers quite a tight fit, but the SuperSkin sleeve is ultra-soft and its tightness is what adds to the wonderfully pleasurable sensations. 

But the Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage shines as a couple’s toy. When you’re with your partner, she can use this sleeve to stimulate most of your shaft while she uses her mouth on the head of your penis.

Just add some of your favorite flavored lube, and the toy will do most of the hard work for your partner. 

Plus, it’s fully translucent, which adds a unique and fun dynamic to a couple’s play as you can both witness everything going on inside.

Another great thing about the Vantage is that the open-ended design and smaller size make it much easier to clean and dry than a classic Fleshlight.

Pros

  • Amazing as either a blowjob helper or solo toy
  • Very easy to clean compared to typical male masturbators
  • Compact case is easy to store and travel with

Cons

  • Can feel too narrow for some well-endowed men
  • Does dry out a little quickly

Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker

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  • Non-anatomical open-ended sleeve
  • 2 inches of insertable length
  • Textured sleeve interior for heightened pleasure
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Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker Review

4.5

The Good Head Blow Job Stroker by Doc Johnson is an accessible, budget-friendly blowjob sex toy perfect for couples with mobility issues. 

Some people experience physical difficulty when performing oral, whether because of their gag reflex or an inability to keep their jaw open. If your partner has trouble performing oral sex but wants to give you a blowjob, this toy could be a game-changer for you.

Apply some flavored lube to your penis and one end of the Good Head Blow Job Stroker. Have your partner help you slide the stroker down your penis. Then your partner can pay special oral attention to the head of your penis while the stroker stimulates your shaft. With the combined sensations of the stroker and your partner’s hands and mouth, you’ll be cumming in no time.

This stroker is pretty small and tight. For some folks, the tightness is exactly the stimulation they need to get off. But for others, it’s constricting. This toy may not fit you if you’re on the larger side.

Pros

  • Extra tight stimulation
  • Perfect for couple’s play
  • Budget-friendly

Cons

  • Too small for larger men
  • Not the best for solo play

BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker

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  • Open-ended masturbation sleeve
  • 2 inches of super stretchy material
  • Discreet storage case
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BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker Review

4.4

The BlowYo Extreme Wave is another versatile blowjob toy that works as a masturbation sleeve and a blowjob helper. It’s made of super-stretchy material that can cover most of your penis or collapse to a length of just two inches. 

The waves of ribbed texture on the sleeve’s interior mimic the feeling of lips and tongue so you can enjoy the feeling of oral even if you’re using it without a partner.

Whether alone or with your partner, the Extreme Wave is best used with some lube. (Be sure to pick a flavored lube if your partner is going to go down on you.) Grip the sleeve between the two solid rings and slide it up and down your shaft, applying more pressure as you desire a tighter grip. 

The Extreme Wave’s plain black carrying case is super discreet and easy to store, so you can take this toy anywhere without raising suspicions. The open-ended design makes it easy to clean, too, because you don’t have to cum inside the sleeve. Everything about this toy is designed for your convenience, making it well worth the price.

Pros

  • Stretches to cover most of the shaft
  • Ribbed interior mimics oral sex
  • Works well for couples and solo play

Cons

  • May be too loose for smaller men

Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Blow Job Masturbator

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  • Closed masturbation sleeve
  • Three internal textures mimic oral sex
  • Adjustable suction
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Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Blow Job Masturbator Review

4.3

I’ve written before about how much I love the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust. This high-quality masturbation sleeve may be pricey, but it delivers amazing sensations straight to your penis. If you can’t get a real blowjob from your partner, this toy is the next best thing.

The Turbo Thrust has three sections of unique textures that mimic the feeling of lips, tongue, and throat. 

You can use the first two sections to tease yourself and save the magic of the final few inches for when you’re ready to climax. This toy makes it so that anyone can experience the feeling of deep-throating, and it’s sure to blow your mind.

If your partner cannot perform oral, the Turbo Thrust is a nice compromise. Your partner can stroke you with the toy, giving you the hands-free sensation of a BJ. Plus, both of you can appreciate the view offered by this translucent case and sleeve. 

Pros

  • Useful for partners unable to give oral
  • Multiple textures mimic a real BJ
  • See-through case gives you a good view

Cons

  • Difficult to clean
  • Can’t be used as a blowjob helper

Sue Johanson Head Honcho Male Masturbator

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  • Stretchy, closed-ended sleeve
  • 5 inches of insertable length
  • Three textured suction chambers
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Sue Johanson Head Honcho Male Masturbator Review

4

If you’re looking for a toy that mimics the feeling of a blowjob instead of a blowjob helper, the Sue Johanson Head Honcho is a great choice. 

This toy is a masturbation sleeve, not a blowjob helper, but you can still use it with your partner. Your partner can stroke you with it, especially if she has trouble performing oral due to mobility issues.

The Head Honcho is a closed-ended sleeve that allows it to provide intense suction on your penis, just like a blowjob. The three suction chambers are designed to take you over the edge quickly, with bumps and ridges providing extra sensation to the base of your shaft. The suction also makes loud, wet noises that will remind you of a BJ, especially if you use lots of water-based lube.

The Head Honcho isn’t the most durable sex toy, and it will probably wear out after a year or two of use. Fortunately, it’s not expensive to replace. It’s a great alternative to the Turbo Thrust that’s more subtle and easier to store and clean.

Pros

  • Fits men of all sizes
  • Provides intense suction and stimulating textures
  • Can be used alone or with a partner

Cons

  • Difficult to clean
  • Wears out easily

Blowjob Toys Buyer’s Guide

The best blowjob toy should feel comfortably snug on your erect penis, with enough pressure to help you climax but not cause pain or constriction. It should be stretchy and soft, not firm. 

The best blowjob toys are slick and easy to maneuver over your penis when paired with water-based lube.

How to Choose the Best Blowjob Toy

To choose the best blowjob toy for you and your partner, you need to consider what you want from your toy. Do you want a toy that will mimic the feeling of a blowjob for your masturbation sessions? Or do you want a toy that will enhance the blowjobs that your partner gives you? 

If you want a toy that acts as a substitution for blowjobs, look for close-ended sleeves that provide suction, like the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust or Sue Johanson Head Honcho. 

If you want a blowjob helper to aid your partner, consider an open-ended sleeve like the BlowYo Extreme Wave Textured Blowjob Stroker, the Fleshlight QUICKSHOT Vantage Compact Male Masturbator and the Doc Johnson Good Head Blow Job Stroker that only covers part of your penis. Your partner can pay attention to the parts not stroked by the sleeve.

Features to Look for in a Blowjob Toy

You need to consider a few important features when choosing the best blowjob toy for you. These include: 

  • Decide whether you want a toy for solo play, a blowjob helper, or a versatile toy that can do both.
  • Look for see-through toys so you can watch the action. Translucent toys are especially fun if you plan on using them with your partner watching. 
  • Pay attention to the diameter of the toy’s opening. If you’re on the larger side, you need a toy that can accommodate your penis, even if it’s a short, open-ended sleeve.
  • Make sure your toy is safe to use with water-based lube. After all, blowjobs are better with lube, and you don’t want to ruin your toy by pairing it with a tasty flavored lube.
  • Look for toys made of soft, squishy materials. A blowjob stroker or sleeve shouldn’t feel like a cock ring. The goal is pleasurable pressure and friction, not constriction.

How to Have Fun with Blowjob Toys

If you’re only looking for a blowjob toy to use for masturbation, then having fun with your toy is simple. Apply some water-based lube to the toy’s opening and your penis, and start stroking. 

But if you want a blowjob toy to take you and your partner’s oral sex game to the next level, there are more options. Maybe your partner can’t perform oral sex at all. In that case, have your partner use a close-ended blowjob masturbator on you instead of performing oral.

If your partner has difficulty with her gag reflex or can’t open her jaw very wide, use an open-ended blowjob stroker to help. When paired with flavored lube, the blowjob stroker will stimulate most of your penis. At the same time, your partner focuses on just the head or another area not covered by the sleeve. 

And if you’re still having trouble talking to your partner about receiving oral sex, I have a handy guide (or would that be a blowy guide?) on just that subject.

Final Thoughts

When you can’t receive a blowjob, a blowjob sex toy can be the next best thing. A close-ended sleeve can mimic the feelings of a BJ during your masturbation sessions. In contrast, an open-ended sleeve can give your partner some help when performing oral.

No matter which style of toy you choose, you’re bound to have a mind-blowingly good time.

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